First of all, check if the selected value is stored  directly in the field of your MM table or if it is stored in the tl_metamodel_tag_relation table.
Basically you need 3 filters.
If it is stored directely in the field, you can grab all entries with a filter like:
	Code:
	SELECT * FROM {{table}} WHERE MY-SELECT-FIELD=MY-VALUE
 or even better:
	Code:
	SELECT * FROM {{table}} WHERE MY-SELECT-FIELD IN(MY-VALUE)
 The value MY-VALUE is probably the ID of the selected foreign MM Entry.
If it is stored in the ..._realtion Table your query should look like:
	HTML-Code:
	SELECT mm.* FROM {{table}} AS mm WHERE mm.id IN
(
SELECT tag.item_id 
FROM tl_metamodel_tag_relation AS tag 
WHERE tag.value_id=MY-VALUE GROUP BY tag.item_id
)